enhance: [2.4] Accelerate listing objects during binlog import

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issue: #40030

pr: #40047

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Codecov Report

All modified and coverable lines are covered by tests ✅

Project coverage is 83.33%. Comparing base (d223150) to head (8eaabe6).

Additional details and impacted files

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##              2.4   #40049       +/-   ##
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+ Coverage   70.40%   83.33%   +12.93%     
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  Files        1081      813      -268     
  Lines      170485   144026    -26459     
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- Hits       120027   120025        -2     
+ Misses      45932    19471    -26461     
- Partials     4526     4530        +4     

Files with missing lines	Coverage Δ
internal/datacoord/services.go	85.44% <100.00%> (+0.16%)	⬆️

... and 292 files with indirect coverage changes